Open Marriage Considerations
Well, this fall has generally been on the shit side for me. Professionally, there’s been some unfortunate changes with the program I work on, which means that I don’t get to travel nearly as much as I used to. I haven’t been laid off, the product is great, but it just isn’t compatible with the companies policies and corporate structure, long story short…
An Open Marriage is only good if you have a high number of leads available at a given time.
Of course this is obvious, you can say the same thing for being single… But getting leads is WAY fucking easier when single. Single guys don’t have a family to take care of, aren’t tied to a specific location, and can easily make time for gaming.
In the past, I could rely on online dating to find girls. But my results this year have totally discredited that option. I’ve had sex with a 3 women via online game this past year, they were all when I was out of country. I did have a go at salt-daddy game, and had sex with a women that way, but it was only fleeting, and I’m not interested in doing that anymore.
I also tried night-game for a couple months, but that really fucks with my schedule, mental state, and general productivity. Plus, as a 38yo with typical suburbian engineer friends, I don’t have a social circle to warrant hanging out at EDM clubs regularly.
Fucking suburbs… Living downtown is not an option unless I send kids to private school, or be one of those married-but-not-living-together types, and I have no interest in doing either of these just to daygame.
The next best thing I can do, to improve my logistics, is get a job downtown, where there’s a bunch of office babes running around. Engineering offices in the burbs are NOT conducive to pickup. Thankfully, if nothing else, my office is relocating *closer* to downtown, at least closer to good coffeeshops. Anyway…
I no longer recommend open marriages, UNLESS you can fulfill at least one of these conditions:
- You’re as jacked as a male model, the type that gets a bunch of likes from unknown women on social media. Online game probably works for you in this case.
- Your wife or other partner is willing to wing for you at sex clubs (a la The Red Quest).
- You live right next to a nursing school, corporate-power yoga studio, or other place that lots of people are transiting, which enables easy logistics for daygame.
- If you’re handsome (but not hot), then travel frequently, or be an expat, since any kind of game will work in this case.
- Make enough money to support sugar babies. Although it’s not “game”… whatever, it’s still a way to have a sex life.
This also presumes that you have decent “game” in the sense of a masculine personality, passing obvious shit tests, and know how to lead.
I used to fulfill #4, but since I no longer travel much, I plan to fulfill #1. I’ve done a ton of lifting out these past couple of years, but have very little to show for it aside from a few chronic injuries and very slight increases in PRs. I’ll be seeing a bodybuilding coach shortly to figure out wtf I’m doing wrong (aside from not taking ‘roids).
I’ll consider #5 once I’m making a shitload of money. Right now I’m not willing to drop $1500/month for a transactional relationship. Is this how much you sugar daddies actually pay? Damn…